Start approaching women? How?

I think the perfect dating app for you to join is The Right Stuff.

All of the other dudes who also want a female to impregnate and live your will are probably not solid 7s.

I have really severe anxiety. I have panic attacks. I'm having one right now. I'm having one because my entire adult life I've never had a friend. But what I've had was my family. Who never gave up on me even though, I was drunk almost every day. I'm sad because even though I'm clean now, I let them down in the past. It hurts that one day they won't be around and then I'll truly be alone. I hate life.

letgocavs said:

I have really severe anxiety. I have panic attacks. I'm having one right now. I'm having one because my entire adult life I've never had a friend. But what I've had was my family. Who never gave up on me even though, I was drunk almost every day. I'm sad because even though I'm clean now, I let them down in the past. It hurts that one day they won't be around and then I'll truly be alone. I hate life.

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You didn't let them down. You're here and that's all they ever wanted.

WellYouNeednt said:

This is great and all, but are you cirCUMcised or not?

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I know this girl that does adult circumcisions with her mouth. Its amazing, anyone need her number, PM me.

If your goal is to start a family and responsibly raise children together with someone, it would be a lot better to focus on prioritizing the qualities of who that someone is and what you'd likely think about them in 20 years. Just saying...

The Oi said:

One of the best threads in site history.

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I have to agree

Any new updates on this?

Not really. Went out with one girl and it went OK, but she said she's not cooking or doing a mans laundry and I said it wouldn't be a fit.

You might be able to find your thrilla in Manila.

letgocavs said:

Not really. Went out with one girl and it went OK, but she said she's not cooking or doing a mans laundry and I said it wouldn't be a fit.

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There’s going to be a trend on TikTok about worst first dates, and you’re 100% going to end up there.

Are you not able to do laundry or cook? Is your home just take out boxes and cum stained clothing?

DJTJ said:

There’s going to be a trend on TikTok about worst first dates, and you’re 100% going to end up there.

Are you not able to do laundry or cook? Is your home just take out boxes and cum stained clothing?

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No, but it's just what I'm looking for. Everybody has their preferences. When i sobered up, I was done feeling bad about who I am or what I'm looking for. I'm not breaking the law and want those things done.

letgocavs said:

No, but it's just what I'm looking for. Everybody has their preferences. When i sobered up, I was done feeling bad about who I am or what I'm looking for. I'm not breaking the law and want those things done.

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Why?

Expecting other people to be subservient to you is going to limit your options.

Sounds like you're in a position where limiting your options isn't something you should be focusing on--especially when it's over stupid shit like doing your own laundry.

letgocavs said:

No, but it's just what I'm looking for. Everybody has their preferences. When i sobered up, I was done feeling bad about who I am or what I'm looking for. I'm not breaking the law and want those things done.

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Look, you’re wrong.

I’m sorry, I won’t beat around the bush. You made this magical thread which I think is still a bit, but in the off chance you’re just this dense…

There’s a reason you’re single, even after other dates, and it’s not the girls. You’re attempting to power negotiate while holding…. no power. The girls don’t need you.

Out of the Rafters at the Q said:

Why?

Expecting other people to be subservient to you is going to limit your options.

Sounds like you're in a position where limiting your options isn't something you should be focusing on--especially when it's over stupid shit like doing your own laundry.

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It's bigger than the laundry. If she won't do mine or make me a meal, she prob thinks she's always right, I'm always wrong, I'm supposed to pick up the bill, clean the house, do this, and do that. Basically serve her. I overcame one of the greatest addictions the world has ever known. I workout everyday, I'm not about to bow down after what I've been thru. I'm the prize. Plus between work and the gym, I just don't have time.

letgocavs said:

No, but it's just what I'm looking for. Everybody has their preferences. When i sobered up, I was done feeling bad about who I am or what I'm looking for. I'm not breaking the law and want those things done.

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Its honestly hard to take this thread seriously.

First all you want is woman for their looks, you want a model, help me get someone that hot. But hey, i have the maturity of a 19 year old, i am a recovering substance abuser, and i think the womans place is in the home cooking and doing my laundery for me in 2022, and while its not illegal, i dont care its not how the world works anymore.

I mean you have to have redeeming qualities to get women, give them something. If its ridiculous looks, just know you get what you give and the women will be short lived, but you are asking for the cream of the crop and you are giving them back goodwill damaged goods.

There is probably a very valid reason you dont get the women you want, its because you dont deserve them and know who to earn them. Woman are not a possession, even a guy who had fun and slept around a bit after my divorce respect them and I have never lied. I make sure I am fun, treat them with respect and make them laugh.

You said earlier in the thread that you needed to grow up, do yourself a favor, take your own advice and well....grow up.