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RonG

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I just had to put my 11 and half year old Boxer Thor. It hurt/hurts worse than any loss I have had to deal with. He was a gentle giant that was always loving. Fuck Cancer. Cancer fucking sucks, I would have paid anything if it meant extending a good quality of life for him, however there was nothing we could do it had spread to all of his organs. I don't know why I am sharing, maybe I just wanted to write the words and read them.



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I had to put my ten and a half year old boxer down two years ago right before Christmas, also due to cancer. It was probably the worst day of my life.

I got another boxer puppy two weeks later and don't regret it at all.

Best wishes. Putting down a dog is always terrible.
 
Put down our 12 year cat 2 weeks ago because of liver failure...

It. Sucks. Im sorry man.
 
Sorry to hear man, losing pets fucking sucks. RIP Thor.
 
Sorry for your lose. Last year had to put down my wife's cat who was 16 years old who had been with her dor all of her life milestones. Truly incredible how deep the bond is between humans and pets.

May Thor rest in peace. And maybe you find solace in he is not suffering.
 
Sorry for your loss.
 
RIP Thor.

We had the same situation with our cat Lily last year. She wasn't eating much, so we took her to the vet ... turned out she was filled with tumors, and we had no choice but to put her down. So, yeah, fuck cancer.
 
I am so sorry for your loss.

I had to contend with the same scenario just right after my father died.

It was rough.
 
Thanks for the kind wishes.
 
We rescued a cat earlier this year before we moved back across the country. Friendliest and most affectionate cat I've ever come across - starts purring immediately whenever you're within about five feet of him, nuzzles, comes and jumps up and hangs out in your lap, etc. I don't mind cats, but I honestly didn't want this one. That being said, the little guy's really grown on me.

He was originally from Mexico, and came here with a litany of health problems. Chronic conjunctivitis, upper respiratory issues (usually has some snot running down his nose and sneezes occasionally), and was underweight when we got him. We got him to gain weight, and all was good.

He gradually stopped eating a couple days ago - unusual because he normally eats enough for two cats :chuckle: - and I woke up for work to see a suspicious stain in one of our chairs where he had been sleeping the night prior. Turns out it was vomit, which is something he's not done (to my knowledge) in the past 8 or so months we've had him. We scheduled him for a vet appointment, and the soonest they could get him in was Saturday.

He ended up throwing up in his bed and I made the decision to take him to the ER. Thank goodness I did - he was severely dehydrated, has an upper respiratory infection, and conjunctivitis, all of which are being treated. But...

The most concerning thing was that the vet called us at 3 am to tell us that they had detected a lesion on his intestine and several swollen lymph nodes in his GI tract. An ultrasound this afternoon confirmed that he has a thickening of the intestinal wall - all signs pointing to the likely fact that he has lymphoma. They are going to sedate him and draw some fluid from his lymph nodes for testing, but we're already gearing up for the worst.

We'll know more in the coming weeks, but it fucking sucks, man. Seriously, one of the absolute sweetest pets I've ever had. He's feeling a lot better, is able to eat again, and is his normal, happy, friendly and affectionate self again, so we'll be bringing him home tonight and then figuring out the next course of treatment. He's a pretty young cat, so it sucks that he's likely going to get a much shorter life than he should have.

Sorry to grave dig an old and depressing thread, but I just needed to vent a bit. Hug your fur babies close - you never know when shit's gonna go south. I know I didn't wake up yesterday morning planning to spend 3K in emergency vet bills, but here we are.

If you don't have it, pet insurance is a great investment. It won't help me pay for buddy boy's cancer-related expenses, as they don't cover pre-existing conditions, but it should come in handy as my dog starts to get older.

Fuck cancer. Thanks for reading.
 
Marcus hopefully your little kitty pulls through. Make sure to keep us updated. Almost nothing sucks like the loss of a pet.

Much appreciated. We're encouraged by the fact that GI lymphoma is generally much more treatable in felines, and depending on whether it's low or high grade, we might be able to buy a year or two or maybe even more (if we're lucky) with chemotherapy. I'll definitely need to enroll in a payment plan - pet chemotherapy is almost as prohibitively expensive as human chemotherapy, but this little guy deserves the best quality of life possible.

I'm fortunate enough to be married with no kids right now and making really good money, so we can absolutely work chemotherapy and/or palliative care (when needed) into our budget, but I'm definitely kicking myself for not signing up for pet insurance with my job when I first started back in the spring. It was just one of those things that I always meant to do but never got around to doing. Hindsight is 20/20, but I'm learning my lesson the hard way. I got both of our fur babies enrolled this morning.

Also, major kudos to my employer. Told my boss what I've been dealing with (I didn't sleep a wink last night), she told me without hesitation to take the day. I work hard, but management has never ever denied me time off when I've needed it (and in multiple cases, actually told me to just take it, without me asking). Definitely helps alleviate some of the stress.
 
My little man took a hard left turn earlier tonight. We just had to put him down.

Fuckin sucks, man.

Yeah, it really does. Sorry to hear about it. Hope you're doing okay, all things considered.
 

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