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Based on everything I've read on the (too) many threads on this topic right now. You care about looks. That's it.

You care about how you look. You care about how a potential mate looks. You blanket being that shallow over saying that you're an introvert and you're not sure how you're still single. It's pretty fucking obvious why based on your responses and how you gloss over genuine advice from multiple people.

You need a mindset change. Simple as that. Nobody cares if you're jacked if you've got the personality of a pillow case.

If you think that's harsh, then good, I was trying to be. Make the necessary changes or life is going to continue to go this way for you.
 
Even if you look like a Neanderthal in the face, you are 6’ tall and in good shape. Get your style right and girls will want you. Stop fishing for validation.
 
I’m 90% convinced this is someone’s alt and they’re doing a bit.
Unfortunately I'm real. Going to give these topics a rest. Read thru them and try to understand the advice I've been given. Thank you all for your responses. Have a great day.
 
YOU MUST NEVER CHANGE YOUR AVATAR EVAR EVAR PLZ NO
I had no avatar for years. Finally went with a smug, shit-eating Antawn Jamison avatar after he sucked for us. Changed to this sexy Kevin Love avatar when he couldn't stay healthy and everyone hated him.

The time will come for a new avatar. Just have to wait for the next massive flop from the Cavs.

I'm pretty sure OP can't get girls pregnant because Kevin Love steals them.
 
Unfortunately I'm real. Going to give these topics a rest. Read thru them and try to understand the advice I've been given. Thank you all for your responses. Have a great day.

The point that most here are making is thus far you’ve defined yourself and your personality as: superficial workout guy that wants to get fitness model type pregnant.

It sounds like you have no interests other than figuring out how to get a woman pregnant. The reason you can’t keep a ‘10’ is because once the woman gets over the initial physical attraction her or her friends can see through to your true intent, which is to get a hot woman pregnant, for which you said there is real motivation but have not shared.

Are you looking for a future wife or are you trying to make a baby? All you’ve talked about is getting a woman pregnant, but have said nothing what you desire of that woman other than physical appearance. You have to figure out your own interests, goals, likes, and dislikes outside of superficial things.

The point is, if you don’t know yourself and what you want, you could walk into a room with 1,000 single women that fit the description you provided and leave empty handed because you have no way to connect with them beyond purely superficial/physical attraction.
 
Kevin Love was never supposed to be good looking.

He had a fully reconstructive double jaw surgery to fix his jaw and whatever else he put in there. Then he probably had some orthodontic work to widen his palate or whatever. Had some hair implants as well.

You don't have to be born a 10 nowadays... you just need to have the motivation to fix whatever problems you have physically and emotionally and know your goals.

You care so much about your looks because you are shallow and you your thinking is non complex. You can't find your self worth and you don't feel you can project it to the opposite sex.. maybe even to the same sex.

So you have two ways to go about it;

1.You go fix all or some of your insecurities cosmetically. Surgeries, Performance enhancing drugs.. whatever that can make you feel better about yourself and help you find that other superficial gal. Fuck it...you are in the US, go enjoy yourself right?

2.You work on yourself and improve your self worth in a more organic way. Try to make real connections. Don't judge people before you get to meet them. Try to build meaningful interpersonal relationship with new people as well as the people that are currently in your life. Attraction builds. Connections grow. If you come with a clean slate and don't judge people before you get to meet them. Find someone that gets you and you get her. Stop judging individual body parts.. I think you are way past that age, and whatever goal you have in your life as far as relationship is concerned, that mindset will lead you nowhere if you want to a long lasting relationship, or even just a meaningful one. Then, try to improve yourself because your care about that person and the relationship...physically and mentally if you feel that it's needed. But be yourself.

What I find is that the first route is the easy route and the route that will net the lowest long term yield. You may never be fully content with how you look and/or feel. You will age and have other issues that bother you because you never actually fixed the core issue.

Relationship for me is first of all to have a connection and be understood. To not be alone. Sure, attraction is important, but it comes from so many traits and things if you actually pay attention to them...I'm not 16 anymore and neither are you. You and I are probably at different stages in our lives with different circumstances, but we are roughly at the same age and I feel like I have experienced a much wider range of emotions,feeling,experiences than the average person in my age, and from my experience I can tell you that there will come a time where you will need that partner to be there for you because of the connection you have and the attraction that is deeper than than the glutes and thighs that may not even be present at that point in time.

Now, I will say that the world has changed. It has become more superficial as a whole...it sucks for some people. so in a way you feel like you have to adapt. But I don't think it's the right choice to force yourself to do something when it feels unnatural. But ultimately it's your decision. However, I do think you need to have a conversation about it with a therapist of some sort to figure out the core issue and work on it.
 
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I also had a 10 a couple of years ago but I was too quiet for her. She took me to a party to meet her friends after a month of dating. We never went out again. Point is I can get a 10

You probably need to socialize more and figure out how to small talk. My friends have done this in the past as a test. The women most likely didn't expect you to be the life of the party, she just wanted to see if you could mesh with her friends on some level. She most likely just wanted you to strike up some conversations with her guy friends or the boyfriends of her close friends. Her friends are probably important to her and wanted to just make sure she wasn't dating a guy that would alienate her from her friend group.
 
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You probably need to socialize more and figure out how to small talk. My friends have done this in the past as a test. The women most likely didn't expect you to be the life of the party, she just wanted to see if you could mesh with her friends on some level. She most likely just wanted you to strike up some conversations with her guy friends or the boyfriends of her close friends. Her friends are probably important to her and wanted to just make sure she wasn't dating a guy that would alienate her from her friend group.

When Inliner311 says small talk, he means figure out a way to talk a woman into fucking you despite your small dick.
 
I would still like to know what the higher purpose is of allowing these women to get your highly regarded seed and make them pregnant.
 
I would still like to know what the higher purpose is of allowing these women to get your highly regarded seed and make them pregnant.
He's just trying to answer the most famous question on Yahoo Answers

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You probably need to socialize more and figure out how to small talk. My friends have done this in the past as a test. The women most likely didn't expect you to be the life of the party, she just wanted to see if you could mesh with her friends on some level. She most likely just wanted you to strike up some conversations with her guy friends or the boyfriends of her close friends. Her friends are probably important to her and wanted to just make sure she wasn't dating a guy that would alienate her from her friend group.
Yeah this was two years ago, this happened again about 6 weeks ago. On our fourth date I met this woman friends and we never did go out again. I now have a rule, I'm not meeting someone's friends. I'm telling them, I'm quiet, a loner and don't party.
 
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