I didn't accuse you of bigotry... I'm explaining why Cavatt is.
I didn't misrepresent your position. I just quoted you.
Here, I'll do it again, these are your words:
"Because in the case of straight couples children, you're usually talking about children who are equally tied, biologically, to the two parents.. That does not exist with gay couples. Second, I see a benefit to children having both a male and female role model that I do not see with having two moms and two dads."
"a gay couple can live together, and the non-biological parent can still assume a parental role, without getting married, if that is preferable. I know some gay couples, none of whom are legally married, who do exactly that. So I still don't see the societal justification for making it marriage."
"It's better still to have a mom and a dad, so that's the relationship we choose to subsidize."
When Cavatt responded with:
"It shouldn't matter what the gender of parents are as long as they aren't shitty human beings."
You stated:
"Well, I think it does. And I think most people would agree, outside this context where there are other agendas,that a mother and father who aren't shitty human beings are preferable to a mother and mother who aren't shitty. Otherwise, the argument must be that not having a mother, or not having a father, has no adverse effect at all."
"If I had a homosexual child, I would not want to see that child be discriminated against. I would not really care if they ever got married or not, because there's no risk of them giving birth to a child with their spouse."
Same issue.. No need to bump that thread.
It's not irrelevant, it's entirely to the point of civil rights.