Thanks, that helps a lot.
But what's up with the shadows she births?
Possible.
I'm trying to think of any evidence to support or refute that theory but I can't. It has been forever though since I read the books and the show is considerably light on context.
The nature of R'hllor the Lord of Light is one of the great mysteries right now IMO. There has to be something to it even if the shadow demons come from somewhere else, though, since Thoros of Myr resurrects Beric so many times (and, in the book, Beric brings back Catelyn- which I'm not sure we ever get details on how he does that other than giving his own life?)
Maybe R'hllor is good after all and Melisandre is misinterpreting him? Bringing a friend back to life is pretty nice, ala Thoros and Beric. But birthing a shadow demon to assassinate people is kind of evil.
My thought is that R'hllor is no more "good" than whatever motivates the Others. I think there is supposed to be some sort of balance between the Ice and the Fire, and that somehow, it got out of whack. Maybe some kind of truce/tribute was broken, or whatever. But neither of them is really "better" than the other. And I think the result of the war will be restoring that particular balance, whatever it is.
After all, both the Others and the servants of R'hllor have the ability to bring back the dead. Those brought back by the Others obviously are more feral, but there may be a reason for that. Even Beric said there was something "wrong" about it, so it's not really a "good" thing.
Anyway, I think both of them having that power says something important. Just not exactly sure what yet.
True, although Beric is being brought back from violent death half a dozen times. And loses a part of himself each time. That could have some negative connotation for sure.
Personally I don't think either force is "good" either and I doubt either is straight "evil" because it isn't Martin's style. But I also don' think the whole out of balance theory is very Martin-esque either, I've heard it elsewhere before. Really is a total mystery.
Just had an epiphany about the "You know nothing Jon Snow" line, specifically when Mel repeats it to him:
He knows nothing about who he really is, aka his lineage.
That and he did really, really bad on his SATs.
You mean show Stannis, victim of character assassination? Who in all likelihood doesn't burn his daughter in the books because it makes no sense and is logistically impossible? You should know better as a book reader.
GRRM is the one who gave the info about Shireen's burning to D&D so unless he's telling them to kill characters off that he doesn't intend to in the books, it's probably coming.