A more settled personality would acknowledged their poor play and took the benching, knowing in their heart that they would likely play again later in the season and on into the playoffs as Wade was exposed (who had to be given a chance, due to the totally unnecessary extension Altman gave out).
A feeling of loyalty to the team that maxed him out; a team on the threshold of making the playoff first the first time since his team won the championship could perhaps overcome the hurt of the benching, buoyed by the confidence that, when it came down to it, he would indeed make a difference. Just as his game has just recently begun to come around, the same phenomenon could have benefited CLE.
But no, the mental anxiety became too much; the is Kevin Love we're talking about. It's really only about the next contract anyway. He formally asks for the buyout. Once he did that, game over.
And, I hope Love ain't expecting that number retirement ceremony any time soon. Should have took that ass to the Western Conference.