So I'm 22, a recent college graduate, who took a job offered to me by a family friend and relocated to a new city where I knew no one. I've been here for six months, and the overwhelming amounts of depression have caused me to basically abandon everything I liked to do.
I've tried to make friends. I've tried to get actively involved. I'm literally at the point with work that I'd rather just be dirt poor than constantly live in a fear of being fired, or that I work 11 hour days because of constant changes in my job (i've basically taken on three roles) while I watch others show up late, and leave early. My job makes me absolutely loathe waking up.
My parents, who used to be very, very difficult to deal with, have kind of taken a complete different approach. They're very supportive. They want me to be happy. The issue is, they're moving to, and I know it would crush my mom for me to move back as she moves away.
Idk what to do. I don't know how to leave my job if I find another. I don't even know if I can afford to move. Help. Someone. Please.
I've tried to make friends. I've tried to get actively involved. I'm literally at the point with work that I'd rather just be dirt poor than constantly live in a fear of being fired, or that I work 11 hour days because of constant changes in my job (i've basically taken on three roles) while I watch others show up late, and leave early. My job makes me absolutely loathe waking up.
My parents, who used to be very, very difficult to deal with, have kind of taken a complete different approach. They're very supportive. They want me to be happy. The issue is, they're moving to, and I know it would crush my mom for me to move back as she moves away.
Idk what to do. I don't know how to leave my job if I find another. I don't even know if I can afford to move. Help. Someone. Please.