I learned a valuable lesson in the last 24 hours, in my humble opinion.
When this news of Hunt first came down, my vision of it was he hauled off and caved her face in. In fact, I saw multiple descriptors saying just that. It made him seem like a monster and I wasn't even interested in looking at a video like that. That sort of thing is disgusting and I don't need to see it. I have a daughter, like mr hot pixie cut is my wife dude I am also a "feminist" husband, I would suppose. I have no room and no respect for that type of shithead dude.
The Browns signed him and my honest, hypocritical instinctual response was "awesome!!".. upon reading others opinions and self reflection, that response kinda disgusted me about myself. I'm actually willing to sell out those principals for my favorite sports team? That's just kinda gross.
So, then, I read so many opinions.. most valid (those asking why we need him from a football perspective are truly the ignorant ones and not at all valid). I *finally* watched the video and was like..
That's it? That's all that happened???
It's some drunken idiots being drunken idiots. It's not ok, Kareem has to be held to a much higher standard than the average person for sure. He has served alot of punishment already - not the least of which is the average idiot like me judging him completely without taking the time to view all the facts. Just went with the tsunami of hate and just figured he's another scumbag. And he has more punishment to come which, if I'm being honest, I'm not even sure that's appropriate seeing as how he wasn't even charged with anything. But I digress.
Now upon reflection, alot of the moral indignation I read here and elsewhere comes off exactly the same. You either didn't watch the video or absolutely refuse to factor in situational nuance, etc. If you really believe this is the same as say Ray Rice, you've lost your damn mind. I don't know how people can be so rigid and unrelenting in their judgements as if they never fucked up in life.
Then when you consider the environment Kareem came from, the shit people that have always been present in his life, it starts to crystallize why he has multiple black marks on his character. He has a steep uphill climb from what he came. I hope and believe he's getting counselling he needs, and the Browns will put structure and oversight in place to give him every chance to cut that behavior out. It's up to Kareem now.
But he's not some monster and he is redeemable. I now feel like the Chiefs rushed to judgement, just like the public. They panicked. They could have suspended him internally pending gathering facts, but they tossed him like yesterday's trash. Their prerogative I suppose, but I do not feel his transgressions match up with deserving banishment from the league. Not to this point anyway.
Yes the Browns took a PR hit, both with some fans and nationally. Yes, that will fade. If he grows as a person, we have a special player on our hands for absolutely nothing. I no longer feel badly about being excited about that. I trust that Dorsey reviewed the facts that I refused to (and, I believe, some in here still do) and decided he deserved a chance.
Edited to add: I just read the piece in the Athletic pretty much outlining much of this. Detailed what a horrible environment that he came from, and how Dorsey knows and cares about this dude since he drafted him and - yes, because of his elite talents - wanted to try to help him set things right and course correct. If you have The Athletic, give it a read.
Shades of grey.. things are not so black and white.