YOU DON'T HAVE CONTROL. Its all an illusion. When you drive 45+ mph, you got no control over a 4,ooo lb car that you drive, and you certainly don't got control over someone else's car.
Have you noticed how far it takes to go from 60mph to a complete stop? Look up on it, and come back here.
PS- You probably attribute "no control" in an airplane because you are not driving. IF SO, what about when your friend/gf/family drive, and you are in the passenger seat?
He's saying you can steer around another car in certain situations, you can slam on your brakes to lessen the impact, etc things like that. In a car you can turn and position and break. Not every accident presents the opportunity for those things but a lot of times you have the chance to improve the situation before crashing.
In an airplane, if something goes wrong your falling out of the air and smashing into the ground....survival rate? .0000000000000000000000001%
Saying airplane's are safer because there are less crashes/deaths doesn't mean anything, the number of people driving on the roads and the number of people flying aren't even close. Of course more people are going to die on the roads, because there are more people out there.
As long as you pay attention to what you're doing 9/10 you'll be fine. Obviously there are drunks, texters, coffee sippers, cell phone users, music listeners that can kill you at any point, but it's not like everyone driving is like that.
I feel more comfortable in a car than I would a plane, just for the fact that I can control how fast I'm going, when I'm stopping etc etc...
With airplanes, you can't control the amount of fuel, whether there is enough, blizzards [which are yes dangerous on the ground, but even MORE dangerous in the air], fog...etc
I mean hell I've heard of planes crashing on the runway because seagulls get caught up in the engines...there's just so many things that can go wrong that are instantly fatal in a plane...I know some of you have flown 150 times or etc...but I drive probably 150 times in a month, and I've never been in an accident, so the statistics can go in several directions.
I'm just saying and it's personal preference, that I'd rather drive than fly...would I rather run fast and dive on my driveway or do a belly flop off my roof?