Start approaching women? How?

[2 For The Brew]

NY post says Tom and Gisele have hired divorce attorneys so she'll be on the market soon.

 

[Hurl Bruce]

What part of the world do you live?

 

[N7RobBob]

Since we are getting into more details of disqualifying attributes. Where does a widow with a kid fall on your spectrum?

 

[Lee]

Gisele doesn't make the cut. So in addition to a 1950s attitude, beauty, fitness and aversion to a social life there can't be any kids.

That Venn Diagram looking sadder with every post.

Better direct that search engine to the Phillipines, Russia and Ukraine. Venezuela is another option.

Does amazon.com do mail order brides? (Real ones, not dolls).

Wait? What is wrong with a doll? Seems the most realistic option at this point.

 

[The Oi]

What part of the world do you live?

Center.

 

[pr26]

Adopt a child and move somewhere with legalized prostitution. Pretty sure this solves your problem.

 

[KI4MVP]

1. find someone who shares some common interests, and more importantly, common values with you. Those common values last a lifetime. You don't have to worry about trying to make small talk if you share some interests to talk about.

2. stop worrying about a 10. Numbers are transitory. The personality and values can last a lifetime, the gym butt doesn't. My wife had a stroke at age 35, had to go on steroids that caused her to gain significant weight, then several years later had breast cancer and the chemotherapy caused all of her hair to fall out (it eventually grew back). I've never stopped loving her and one of my favorite pictures with her is from a vacation we took when she was bald.

3. why would you care of they have children. My current wife is a remarriage for both of us. I lost my previous wife to cancer after having 2 kids and adopting a 3rd. My wife had two kids of her own, who I love like my own today. And who both consider me more of a father than their biological father. We had a 6th child together. It was a lot of work raising 6 kids, but well worth it.

We celebrated our 22nd anniversary this year. We're in Florida right now visiting our youngest at college (full ride at FSU) who turned 21 today.

4. Go with your instinct. I knew from the first second I saw my wife that she was the one (both times). I can't explain it, I just felt it. 2nd time I wasn't even looking for anything more than a friend.

5. Don't let let fear of failure or rejection stop you. Not trying ensures failure. Trying at least gives you a chance. Depsite all I've gone through, I wouldn't change a thing. I wouldn't want either of them to go through what they did without me there to help them through it. And wouldn't want to be without my wife, our 6 kids, 2 daughter-in-laws, or our 3 grandchildren.

I hope I edited this all where it makes sense. I reordered these many times while writing it.

 

[letgocavs]

Just left a first date from hinge. Was myself. Made jokes about her cooking and doing my laundry. She said she wouldn't do my laundry, but not opposed to cooking for a man. I think it went alright. Just tried to be me. 100 women might not like me, or the offensive sexist stuff I say, but I only need 1 to find it funny.

 

[Out of the Rafters at the Q]

Just left a first date from hinge. Was myself. Made jokes about her cooking and doing my laundry. She said she wouldn't do my laundry, but not opposed to cooking for a man. I think it went alright. Just tried to be me. 100 women might not like me, or the offensive sexist stuff I say, but I only need 1 to find it funny.

You could always try being less shitty.

But, I think you've made it clear in this thread that self-improvement isn't something you'll ever accomplish.

 

[letgocavs]

You could always try being less shitty.

But, I think you've made it clear in this thread that self-improvement isn't something you'll ever accomplish.

I find I'm too boring. So I try to be myself.

 

[Out of the Rafters at the Q]

I find I'm too boring. So I try to be myself.

Do you think there's any ground that you could occupy between the lands of "boring" and "disrespectful jackass"?

I'm curious why you feel disrespectful jackass is "yourself." Why not aspire to be something better?

From a psych standpoint, people often just call their status quo "themselves" because they're too lazy to improve. Personalities change. People are just pattern recognition machines. Focus on being better, and actually do it, and it'll become your new "self" just as effortlessly as the current persona you've built.

 

[letgocavs]

Do you think there's any ground that you could occupy between the lands of "boring" and "disrespectful jackass"?

I'm curious why you feel disrespectful jackass is "yourself." Why not aspire to be something better?

From a psych standpoint, people often just call their status quo "themselves" because they're too lazy to improve. Personalities change. People are just pattern recognition machines. Focus on being better, and actually do it, and it'll become your new "self" just as effortlessly as the current persona you've built.

I have changed. I use to be afraid to be myself. I want a woman to cook and clean for me, so I make that clear.

 

[letgocavs]

I just figure I'm going to get shot down anyway, so might as well be real.

 

[The Human Q-Tip]

Well, I feel there is an important, unknown variable that must be taken into account.

So...are you circumsized?

 

[Out of the Rafters at the Q]

I want a woman to cook and clean for me, so I make that clear.

If your goal is an honest relationship, I actually don't have a problem with this.

I think you're a major turn-off for most people, but more power to you.

If you're trying for self-improvement, or want to know how to get hot instagram models pregnant, I don't believe this is the best course.