I don't think a lot of these situations are nearly as black and white as people make them out to be.
Whether it's sports or not, what I find gross is this mob mentality that society has adopted where mistakes are death sentences. And the severity of the mistake doesn't even seem to matter anymore. Offensive tweets to domestic violence...whatever mistake you make, there's a blood thirsty crowd calling for your crucifixion.
If the story is true and the woman refused to leave the premises when asked and started slinging N-words at a drunk man...does she deserve to get shoved to the ground and then knocked back over with his foot? Of course not. But to completely ignore that she instigated a terrible situation and to demand that this man's life is ruined forever seems gross to me. It seems completely void of empathy, and it seems evil.
I would echo this sentiment even if he just signed with the Steelers or Ravens. Hell, I said as much right after the video came out.
I think you can have this point of view without being shamed. And I think you can have this point of view without being accused of turning a blind eye just to support your favorite sports team.
That's all.