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Start approaching women? How?

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You might want to join group classes like yoga or something where there are a lot of women. Probably have to figure out when the younger single ones go to class vs the older married/divorce/housewives go. Co-ed intramural sports might also be something to look into. Volleyball, floor hockey, soccer, etc. Cycling or running clubs might also work.
 
inliner311 said:
You might want to join group classes like yoga or something where there are a lot of women. Probably have to figure out when the younger single ones go to class vs the older married/divorce/housewives go. Co-ed intramural sports might also be something to look into. Volleyball, floor hockey, soccer, etc. Cycling or running clubs might also work.
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Yeah my gym has a yoga class. It's mostly a younger gym. Around my age or younger. Been a little too hesitant too attend though.
 
The Human Q-Tip said:
I'm going to say right now that you are not too old. Guys have kids who are significantly older than you are, so don't let that freak you out or pressure you.
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Lucky for many men, women prefer men older than themselves much of the time.

34 is actually a prime age for many women.

Mid-30s generally means stability, maturity while still in shape and happy.
 
This thread's a little goofy but here's the deal: People at the gym, or the grocery store, or just doing normal every day things don't wanna be approached.

So if you're gonna approach them, you, quite frankly, need to be either extremely charismatic or extremely attractive to overcome the above fact.

If you are not, then you need to be going to places where people are more likely to WANT to be approached. Obviously, a bar or a club is at the top of the list there.
 
Find woman. Go up to woman. Say hello with curious look.

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letgocavs said:
Yeah my gym has a yoga class. It's mostly a younger gym. Around my age or younger. Been a little too hesitant too attend though.
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I think you just need to find a reason to take a class like yoga or whatever other than just trying to meet someone. Like you can decide to take yoga to hopefully prevent injuries while playing basketball. Then set your expectations lower, instead of expecting to talk to the women of your dreams in the class, just try to talk to people in the class and make friends. Network so that you can possibly socialize in other settings with the crowd of women you want to date.
 
inliner311 said:
I think you just need to find a reason to take a class like yoga or whatever other than just trying to meet someone. Like you can decide to take yoga to hopefully prevent injuries while playing basketball. Then set your expectations lower, instead of expecting to talk to the women of your dreams in the class, just try to talk to people in the class and make friends. Network so that you can possibly socialize in other settings with the crowd of women you want to date.
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Yeah I've been wanting to go because I play ball 3 to 4x a week and feel it will help with the things you listed.
 
letgocavs said:
So you all are telling me every big booty in shape chick I see at the gym is an ig model? None of them are introverts? I just figured I should find someone with similar interests
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If a girl is wearing skin tight yoga pants so you can see every outline of her ass when she's at the gym, odds are she's not an introvert.
 
Bro, you don’t want those gym girls. You ain’t that dude and that’s a lot of work. I dated one of them for about a half year and yeah, it was an ego boost to see how she turned heads but she was a total bitch, and a dead fish in the sack and that was WHEN she would let me fuck which was like never. Everything was about image and comparisons to her friends and it was zero fun. I couldn’t really be myself. But man were my friends jealous. But they didn’t know… oh and anyways I broke up w her. Wasn’t worth the hassle.

You think that’s who you want to date but it’s not. If you haven't been pulling those girls since you were like 19/20, that’s just not who you are. You ain’t that dude.

Oh and I should note. I met her at a Browns tailgate, not creeping at the gym. Don’t do that. Go be social.
 
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Mr. Orange said:
Bro, you don’t want those gym girls. You ain’t that dude and that’s a lot of work. I dated one of them for about a half year and yeah, it was an ego boost to see how she turned heads but she was a total bitch, and a dead fish in the sack and that was WHEN she would let me fuck which was like never. Everything was about image and comparisons to her friends and it was zero fun. I couldn’t really be myself. But man were my friends jealous. But they didn’t know… oh and anyways I broke up w her. Wasn’t worth the hassle.

You think that’s who you want to date but it’s not. If you haven't been pulling those girls since you were like 19/20, that’s just not who you are. You ain’t that dude.

Oh and I should note. I met her at a Browns tailgate, not creeping at the gym. Don’t do that. Go be social.
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=You’re not that guy, pal.
 
But I can be that guy. I'm a decent looking man, 6 ft, mostly muscle, athletic body type. People always tell me, that I probably get any girl I want, but truth is obviously I don't. I once had a 10 approach me at the bar we went on 3 dates but I was so nervous by her I never made a move. Her beauty made me insecure. I also had a 10 a couple of years ago but I was too quiet for her. She took me to a party to meet her friends after a month of dating. We never went out again. Point is I can get a 10
 
It makes me self conscious but I’ve been wearing my tank top to lift more and I’ve gotten some looks. Need to learn to capitalize of them. I don’t care about being a creep. I just need help from you all approaching.
 
When I say creep I just don’t think there’s anything wrong with approaching a woman anywhere. Gym, grocery store, what ever
 
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