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David. said:
Plenty of ways to skin a cat but goes without saying you need to let them know you eat ass as soon as possible in the conversation
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What if he doesnt eat ass though. Do you teach a class?
 
I'm 34 and stuck like this because I became an alcoholic at 19 because of anxiety and I never dealt with trying to realize my feelings as an adult. So I'm sober 2 years now and it's still like I'm stuck with the maturity of a 19 year old handling shit I should've done then.
 
letgocavs said:
So you all are telling me every big booty in shape chick I see at the gym is an ig model? None of them are introverts? I just figured I should find someone with similar interests
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2 introverts and you dont want to do online dating? Come on man, who makes the first move?

And plenty of model good looking woman date online, if you cant get them then they are out of your league, not much you can do, either be happy with an amazing person you can get, or be disappointed and miserable at the woman you cant get. One of the things woman are attracted to are personality, being shy and introverted will hurt there, be happy that you live in a world of online dating, 20 years ago a blow up doll is the best you could hope for.
 
letgocavs said:
I'm 34 and stuck like this because I became an alcoholic at 19 because of anxiety and I never dealt with trying to realize my feelings as an adult. So I'm sober 2 years now and it's still like I'm stuck with the maturity of a 19 year old handling shit I should've done then.
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Maybe you need to work on yourself and get counseling, maybe you objectify women because you believe getting a beautiful woman will make you happy because it helps with your self worth.

This is only a temp fix and you will feel worse when the woman leaves you because you are only with her for her looks.
 
There’s no magic formula. You sound so desperate that your fear of failure/ill-conceived notion of time is keeping you from even approaching a woman in the first place. Plus, you should know a gym is generally a horrible place to try to talk to women. The rare exception might be in group classes where some level of interaction is expected. Otherwise, you better be built like the Rock and have an insanely quick wit.

Point is, if you have the money and just want a baby with a beautiful woman, you can make that happen pretty easy. If you want a relationship with one you somewhat have to cast physical appearance aside, because if they have no personality you’ll probably ditch them (or they’ll ditch you) before you ever get plant your precious seed.
 
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Just opening things up here…

To all the nervous, sweaty, shy guys in here, how did you all do from a sexual standpoint?

Always helpful to have a basis of comparison.
 
The Oi said:
Just opening things up here…

To all the nervous, sweaty, shy guys in here, how did you all do from a sexual standpoint?

Always helpful to have a basis of comparison.
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I was the runt. Freshman year of high school I was 4'9", 87lbs. I was the smartest kid all my life and blind as a bat. Luckily I got contacts in first grade (those hard ones you had to take out with a plunger) but when I had glasses on, I was basically Minkas from Boy Meets World.

I was also always socially acceptable. I was friends with everyone. Part of the popular crowd for all of elementary and middle school, but only had a handful of really good friends, most nerds like me.

Didn't get laid for the first time until college. Waited until college for my first actual relationship besides dumb middle school ones where you'd chat on AIM, talk on the phone, dance at school dances and occasionally get a kiss.

Met my wife, been together 15 years, couldn't be happier. Oh, and I'm dynamite in the sack. Just ask @sportscoach 's granny
 
If there's one thing that I've learned from watching social media videos is that girls love looking at their ass in the mirror after doing squats, and they don't want random dudes coming up to them and asking them out.
 
Feeding my kid rn will bookmark and return later
 
Out of the Rafters at the Q said:
I was the runt. Freshman year of high school I was 4'9", 87lbs. I was the smartest kid all my life and blind as a bat. Luckily I got contacts in first grade (those hard ones you had to take out with a plunger) but when I had glasses on, I was basically Minkas from Boy Meets World.

I was also always socially acceptable. I was friends with everyone. Part of the popular crowd for all of elementary and middle school, but only had a handful of really good friends, most nerds like me.

Didn't get laid for the first time until college. Waited until college for my first actual relationship besides dumb middle school ones where you'd chat on AIM, talk on the phone, dance at school dances and occasionally get a kiss.

Met my wife, been together 15 years, couldn't be happier. Oh, and I'm dynamite in the sack. Just ask @sportscoach 's granny
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Does she also run a 4.3?
 
Your focus should be on making $. Women love other peoples $.

The richer you are, the further you can out kick your coverage.

C.R.E.A.M.
 
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