arglebargle
Towel Waver
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OP, Have you considered you just have a terrible personality, are boring, and people don’t like you?
This has not ever occurred to me even once.
OP, Have you considered you just have a terrible personality, are boring, and people don’t like you?
It had always been my issue. I started taking personality classes from @Mr. Orange and things immediately got better.This has not ever occurred to me even once.
I knew that was you!!It had always been my issue. I started taking personality classes from @Mr. Orange and things immediately got better.
You know that whole stretch where there were those pickup artists on tv that didn’t seem like they knew a goddamn thing about women?
I took that approach to the classes Orange was teaching me and the friends started rolling in. I was Mr Popularity at my furry conference last week in Tulsa!
This has not ever occurred to me even once.
Mental health advocateOP, Have you considered you just have a terrible personality, are boring, and people don’t like you?
I focus on listening instead of talking about myself.
Our friend circle got bigger by simply inviting current friends over and telling them to bring another friend or two with them, we did this for big days, like my wife's birthday or a big bbq outside, crawfish / shrimp boil ect.
That one on the left, goat?, is a Nazi to boot!I knew that was you!!
Had to reread this because I thought you said your gorgeous wife had an 8 inch cock.
This. I joined a pool league and made a dozen new friends just from that. Pool, darts, bowling.... try something to get you interacting with new people.Join a sports league...I did this years ago and it made it pretty easy. Since then I've made some of the best friends I've ever had in my life.
Great activities for meeting people. Each one will introduce you to a hundred new people. I've played them all, add softball, golf, fishing and I can name a few or more lifelong friends from each sport and they stay pals when I stop doing the activity regularly. It's tough to make friends from the couch.This. I joined a pool league and made a dozen new friends just from that. Pool, darts, bowling.... try something to get you interacting with new people.
Guessing I didn't make my sarcasm obvious enough.Just a piss take.
Hobbies first, friends second. Examples: Rock climbing gym, Browns Backer Bar, rec leagues at the Y, gym buddies, quiz night teams, and if you are really lonely…church. Don’t be a weirdo either. Most people only have a few close friends.
It really isn't an issue with you.Making friends as an adult just sucks. Really, I haven't made a new friend in years. Possibly decades. The friends I did once have are now - just like me - too busy with life. Kids, taking care of aging and sick parents, and so on. Social media is no real substitute. And I've found that this long into Covid now, people have taken to sharing less and less about themselves or their families. It doesn't help that I'm the classic introvert, and being around other people wear me the fuck out. It doesn't matter if it was a good or bad interaction.
Anyone else dealing with this? What do you do to address this in your life?