You're equating a basketball player and rotation minutes with a marriage and you're "upset" I'm not getting the full depth of your metaphor? Theres literally no correlation, no matter how funny you make it out to be.
Love spent the last year talking about how much he loved coming to work, how everyone sacrifices for the greater good, etc. If he's not willing to sacrifice whats needed, then hes either a hypocrit or incredibly selfish. From 2018-2020, his behavior let me know hes likely both. Throwing tantrums and pouting, despite playing lots of minutes, aint it. You don't see Cedi asking out. Or RoLo. Or Neto. Or Dean Wade. But Love gets to ask out without repercussion? Nah. His contract isn't to play. Its to be on the roster. Playing time isn't part of any contract, unless there are bonuses attached. If he was paid per minute played, or by the hour, and they were taking away playing time, I'd see the issue. As you said, though, dude is getting paid regardless, so he can't be considered a team player if hes asking out when *his* playing time is impacted; despite the team going like 12-4 without him.
The Heat are something like 1-4 with him, so obviously *he* may be the issue.